Birthday Party Pressure

I dropped my 2nd grade daughter off at a birthday party a few weeks ago. Over 40 kids were invited to the party. They enjoyed a wonderful time together, but I immediately felt guilty about the birthday parties WE throw. Ours are significantly more understated affairs. We will allow 7-8 good friends, and play a few games and open a few presents. Our parties have all been at our house. We haven’t rented out the theme park, or the pizza arcade.

I was encouraged to see this story on WCCO last night. An increasing number of parents are beginning to use the birthday parties as a chance to teach social responsibility, and to focus on God’s gifts. (Besides… we REALLY don’t need another Polly Pocket set in our basement!!).

From “book-swap” parties, to trips to Feed My Starving Children, kids are finding ways to celebrate God’s gift of life, by making a difference in the lives of others.

Have you found a creative way to simplify the Birthday Party, or use it as a teaching experience for your children? I’d love to hear it!

What do you think?